Psychology behind not complaining

Psychology behind not complaining

          Complaining is a cry for emotional stability. Thus, to complain means to be emotionally unstable. Most people that complain are victims. Victims never succeed by blaming. Indirectly blaming is considered complaining.

          The less you complain, the more stable your emotions are. Thus, not complaining is an optimal strategy when endeavoring to become stronger emotionally.

          The benefits of not complaining result in acceptance and peace with the world. Everything have good qualities and bad qualities but choosing to not complain about the bad qualities will come from a place of gratitude. To have an attitude of gratitude is to not complain.

          Complaining is detrimental to the individual complaining. It is the act of self-victimization. Victims must always be rescued by a force outside their control.

          Most of the things most people complain about are outside their control. Logically, if you can’t control something, you should not invest your emotions in it. By doing so, you would be allowing an external force to control how you feel. Thus, you will not be in control of your own feelings and emotions. An effective way to exhibit control of your emotions is the opposite of complaining, or not complaining.